Howdy y’all!
We’re fixing to leave Cambodia for Canada and retirement. As you can well imagine this isn’t your usual move. There is no waiting until the last minute, throw everything into the back of the car, drive across town, and dump it in the new place. My motto of Always put off until tomorrow what should’ve been done yesterday, won’t work here.
Okay, it will, but I’m not likely to like the results. It would mean items abandoned in the old home, things that have real meaning to me, and people let down. So, I’ve decided to throw out the old playbook and try something new. Thus, I’m writing this post.
Yep, this is me telling you that I probably won’t be posting until next week. Monday next, I’ll be sleeping at the in-laws somewhere in Canada. Until then, I’ve got classes to teach, possessions to dispose of, and bags to carefully pack.
For the past thirty years, every time we’ve moved country, we’ve only taken suitcases. Even though most schools offer shipping allowances for arriving and departing teachers, we’ve never used it. In our first move, we realized that the cost of shipping was far greater than the cost of our furniture. New furnishings is often covered by a settling in allowance.
With airlines rapidly shrinking their baggage allowances, it’s been harder to do. Where we used to get two suitcases each — moving with a toddler who gets two full-sized suitcases was a blessing — we now only get one. Where we used to get 30 or 35 kilos a bag, we get 23 kg. Books have become a luxury. Knickknacks and tchotchkes are out of the question. We’re cutting it to the bone, almost, but not quite, literally.
The one thing that is worrying me enough to evoke my Pathological Demand Avoidance-based freeze reaction is finding an old outdated portable hard drive that has photos from across the thirty years on it. I’m really scared that it got thrown out somehow and I’m reluctant to confront that reality. Much easier to just flee and leave to providence for whether it makes it or not. On the other hand, I really will miss those photos.
Okay. This is your warning. I may or may not be posting this week. I definitely will be next week, but from the other side of the International Date Line but from still on Phnom Penh time.
Wish me luck, siblings! There is still much to be done between now and then.
Blog On!
Jack


I’m moving to. Probably for the last time. As my niece said, “moving is eye opening.” Good luck and safe travels.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Good luck with your move, Mark. We’re currently in the countdown to the flight. Still, eleven hours, though.
We’ve lived in five countries in the past thirty years. This marks our return to North America. It’s gonna be eye opening in a very different way.
Huzzah!
Jack
LikeLiked by 1 person
Safe travels. Use Shutterfly for the next 30 years. They will keep them all.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’m very excited for you and yours, and am sending all positive, fine, and good wishes for your move!
LikeLiked by 1 person
No wonder I’m feeling calmer and more together today! Thank you Ali!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Good luck with the move and I will be here when you get back to posting….chuq
LikeLiked by 2 people
Howdy Chuq!
I’m counting on folks sticking around. I’ve got some things to say about what is not okay. This time next week, I’m on the other side of the dateline, jet lagged, and having a GREAT Internet connection.
Huzzah!
Jack
LikeLiked by 1 person
I look forward to your thoughts….Be safe…..chuq
LikeLiked by 1 person
O.K., Jack, enjoy your new surroundings and I will be awaiting you rreturn to the blog.
LikeLiked by 2 people
Thank you, John. I’m hoping we’ll enjoy them. I think we will. I’ve never actually been. We bought a house sight unseen except by over the Internet. We’ll know soon enough, I reckon.
Huzzah!
Jack
LikeLiked by 1 person