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SUMMARY: Every April, Ye Olde Blogge posts about autism, and 2026 is no exception. Autism Spectrum Disorder affects communication, social interaction, and behavior across a wide range — from nonverbal individuals to high-functioning people who still sometimes sit in the dark not understanding the social interaction going on around them. The national organizations can’t agree on whether April is Awareness, Acceptance, or Appreciation Month, and frankly, the semantics matter less than the action: accommodation. Quieter movie theaters, differentiated classrooms, clearer communication — these benefit everyone, not just autistic people. This month, Ye Olde Blogge features posts on PDA, AI chatbots, and neurodivergence in a neuroconvergent world.
KEY TERMS: Autism Spectrum Disorder Neurodivergent Neuroconvergent Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) Sensory sensitivity Differentiated instruction Accommodation Masking Autism Acceptance Month High-functioning autism
COMMENT: This month every post will contain some personal experience with autism. I’d love to hear some of your experiences dealing neurodivergence… in the comments.
- What is Autism?
- Is it Autism Awareness, Acceptance, or Appreciation Month — Who Cares?
- What’s coming this month
- Image Attribution
It’s April, so it’s time for your two favorite topics, autism and taxes! Every April, Ye Olde Blogger drags himself to the keyboard to write about autism. Not because anyone is making him — regular readers know that with PDA there is no make, only do after a painful gawd awful delay just ask my long suffering Man Belle Femme — but because autism matters to me and my family. As an autistic father, I have an autistic daughter, sister, nieces, and mother. So, move over taxes, it’s time for Autism Axx Month.
I say “Axx” because depending on who you ask and what year it is, the A stands for Awareness, Acceptance, or Appreciation. The national organizations have been workshopping this for years with the energy of a committee redesigning a logo. While April remains the same, the duration shifts depending on country and organization. It’s either a day, a week, or the entire month. It’s almost like someone with autism planned all of this.
Ye Olde Blogger has been writing about autism every April for five years running now, which is frankly more consistent than my tax filing record, and I say that without pride. Last year it evolved into a weekly post through the month and I liked that. It fits my posting speed, my attention span, and frankly, there’s enough to say that one post doesn’t cover it. So we’re doing that again. If you’re new here, welcome. If you’ve been here before, you know what you’re in for.
What is Autism?
The clinical answer: Autism Spectrum Disorder is a developmental condition affecting communication, social interaction, and behavior. It’s a spectrum, which means it ranges from nonverbal individuals requiring round-the-clock care to people like me — employed for thirty years, raised a kid, own a sourdough starter — who still can’t keep themselves from sitting in a dark waterless house for a day because paying the bill provoked too much anxiety. We contain multitudes.
If you want the full symptom rundown — the eye contact thing, the sensory stuff, the obsessive interests, the social awkwardness — I’ve written that post. Follow the links to past posts. What I’d rather tell you is what autism feels like from the inside, which is something the DSM-5 doesn’t cover particularly well.
Autism feels like being an American macho football player plunked down in the middle of a rugby game. Everything seems familiar, sort of, but you’re getting hit at times you don’t expect from places you don’t see coming. You get about half of what’s going on and no matter what you do or how well you do it, there’s always someone there to tell you that you’re doing it wrong. Everyone else got a copy of the rulebook but you. Every attempt to explain the game to you is filled with innuendo and hints, none of which you get, but everyone else seems to. Even though you feel like you’ve contributed something on one play or another, it goes unnoticed. And the one time it felt like you noticed something remotely important, nobody pays any attention to it or you. Still there is some small satisfaction in making a connection that nobody else made, which almost makes up for the rest of it. Almost.
Is it Autism Awareness, Acceptance, or Appreciation Month — Who Cares?
Every organization seems to have its own take on what to call Autism April. This year the winner seems to be World Autism Month. Still, there are folks out there using Autism Acceptance Month or Appreciation or any other alliterative word that can be strung together with April and Autism that almost makes sense.
Honestly? Ye Olde Blogger is done with these semantic games trying to rope in the neuroconvergent viewers and convince them of something. To me, what is needed is accommodation. Okay, heare me out, though.
I was at a movie theater recently and saw an advertisement for sensory-friendly screenings — lights up, sound down, no judgment if you need to move around. And I thought: yes, that. Not as a special accommodation for broken people, but as good design. You don’t have to be autistic to be hypersensitive. Loud, bright, chaotic, and aggressive should not be the default setting. Many people people — neurodivergent and neuroconvergent, alike — can appreciate a quieter, calmer, more orderly approach to entertainment and the world.
I’ve been making the same argument for the past twenty years to teachers complaining about differentiated instruction: if you build it into your planning from the start, if you make the default question, how can different learners access this material, then it stops being extra work and starts being just… how you teach. How you build. How you design a world that benefits many people at one time or another. Autism becomes just another way of experiencing the world.
Quieter environments, clearer communication, predictable structures — these don’t only help autistic people. They help a lot of people. The assumption that everyone experiences the world in the exact same way or that the majority do and anyone who needs something a little different is asking for special treatment needs to be challenged. We meet people where they are. That’s the whole game. That’s the ask.
What’s coming this month
Over the next few weeks, Ye Olde Blogge will be feature posts about Pathological Demand Avoidance and what it actually looks like in a life, the surprising ways that AI chatbots can be beneficial to autistic people, and possibly dusting off a piece on Rosenhan and what happens when you try to fit a neurodivergent person into a neuroconvergent world. Pay attention to the links to previous autism posts for further explanation of some points.
Autism runs in my family. I’m autistic. My daughter, my mother, my sister, my nieces. My maternal grandfather almost certainly was too. We’ve all held jobs, raised families, paid most of our bills most of the time. Autism has shaped our lives — sometimes painfully, sometimes beautifully, usually both at once. That’s what these posts are about. That’s what I’m most looking forward to sharing.
Howdy, and welcome to the spectrum.
Image Attribution
This image was found on Skill Point Therapy and has a Creative Commons license.
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